Posted to Adelaide Now (9/11/2011) on 9/11/2011 at 2:18 AM, 10:20 AM
Commenting on "Message to men: 'It's not you, it's Mr Right'"
http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/ipad/its-not-womens-careers-that-delay-children-says-study/story-fn6t2xlc-1226188271358
Ladies, what make you so sure that you are the RIGHT choice for Mr Right? Don't forget Mr Right has his selection criteria, too. Unfortunately, the preaching from I-ism gurus creates division between the sexes, and encourages individuals to be uncompromising and ego-centric.
It is almost wishful thinking to have a perfect match. To go one step further it is naïve to believe that life will be completely plain sailing after two perfect persons decide to live happily ever after. In life, there are internal and external influences that can cause cyclonic turbulences to a perfect union.
It is regrettable that many people, men and women, suffer from Peter Pan syndrome. They still want to live the life as though they are in the teenage years - free of worries, no ties and no responsibilities, and bugger the rest of the people in the whole wide world. Life gets a bit lonely when one by one the single friends are single no more. The conversation topics become incomprehensible and routines changed.
Mr Right today may turn out to be the wrong partner quality in the future. On the contrary, the outsider may be the Mr Right that you have been looking for but you have just missed the boat.
Commenting on "Message to men: 'It's not you, it's Mr Right'"
http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/ipad/its-not-womens-careers-that-delay-children-says-study/story-fn6t2xlc-1226188271358
Ladies, what make you so sure that you are the RIGHT choice for Mr Right? Don't forget Mr Right has his selection criteria, too. Unfortunately, the preaching from I-ism gurus creates division between the sexes, and encourages individuals to be uncompromising and ego-centric.
It is almost wishful thinking to have a perfect match. To go one step further it is naïve to believe that life will be completely plain sailing after two perfect persons decide to live happily ever after. In life, there are internal and external influences that can cause cyclonic turbulences to a perfect union.
It is regrettable that many people, men and women, suffer from Peter Pan syndrome. They still want to live the life as though they are in the teenage years - free of worries, no ties and no responsibilities, and bugger the rest of the people in the whole wide world. Life gets a bit lonely when one by one the single friends are single no more. The conversation topics become incomprehensible and routines changed.
Mr Right today may turn out to be the wrong partner quality in the future. On the contrary, the outsider may be the Mr Right that you have been looking for but you have just missed the boat.
